March 27, 2025
Freedom Friday: God Didn’t Bless You for YOU!
God is moving us from transactional mindsets to transformational encounters that prepare us not just to receive blessings but to become capable of holding and sharing them. The real test of faith comes not in waiting but in the moment God starts giving us what we've been asking for.
• Distinguishing between transactional relationships with God versus transformational encounters
• Recognizing that the true test happens when God begins giving us what we've been waiting for
• Understanding that blessings aren't just additions to our lives but increases in our capacity
• Viewing victories as seeds meant to be spread to others in similar situations
• Embracing 2025 as a year of victory, reset, and hearing God's voice
• Taking personal blessings and using them to impact our communities
Like, share, and subscribe to become official members of the Unlearned community so we can continue to build this thing up and continue to unlearn together.
00:09 - Welcome to Freedom Friday
00:56 - Transactional vs Transformational Mindset
03:35 - Preparing for Your Blessing
06:29 - Spreading Your Victory to Others
09:21 - Episode Closing and Community Invitation
WEBVTT
00:00:09.810 --> 00:00:14.095
Well, hello everybody, welcome to the Unlearned Podcast.
00:00:14.095 --> 00:00:20.650
This is Freedom Friday, where we come together to talk about something that we have unlearned recently.
00:00:20.650 --> 00:00:21.902
I'm your girl, jaquita.
00:00:21.902 --> 00:00:22.786
Listen.
00:00:22.786 --> 00:00:31.221
It has been such a pleasure just doing these Freedom Fridays with you guys and just thinking through the goodness of the Lord All right In the land of the living.
00:00:31.221 --> 00:00:37.420
He has me unlearning a lot right now, so I'm happy to share some of that with you guys.
00:00:37.420 --> 00:00:41.029
If you are new to the podcast, welcome to the community.
00:00:41.029 --> 00:00:56.646
If you're not new, but you've been hanging around and you haven't fully joined the community, I want you guys to like, share and subscribe, become official members of the community, so that we can continue to build this thing up and continue to unlearn together.
00:00:56.646 --> 00:00:57.530
Okay, listen.
00:00:57.530 --> 00:01:10.870
So today, the first thing I want to talk to you guys about is God has really been moving me through a season where I am learning the difference between being transactional and being transformational.
00:01:10.930 --> 00:01:11.992
Okay, let me break it down.
00:01:11.992 --> 00:01:19.602
Okay, a lot of times in life, right, we have kind of like a list of things that we've been waiting on God to do.
00:01:19.602 --> 00:01:35.463
We've been waiting for something in our life to change, to shift, for something to be added to our lives, right, okay, some of you are waiting on some in our life to change, to shift, for something to be added to our lives Right, ok, some of you are waiting on some more money in the paycheck OK, some of us have been waiting on a spouse OK, we've been waiting.
00:01:35.463 --> 00:01:39.780
Some of us are waiting for some kids to be added to the family.
00:01:39.780 --> 00:02:40.473
We've been waiting on some weight to drop off the body OK, there are just things that we've been waiting on some weight to drop off the body Okay, right, they're just things that we've been waiting on, and a lot of times, we can begin to center our lives on the things that we're hoping will get added or, in the case of some of us who are trying to get healthy, we'll be detracted right, we've been centering our lives on the things that we're waiting for God to do for us right, and a lot of times, I feel like we get lost in that, and so something that I have recently had to unlearn is to be able to separate myself from what God is doing and allow myself to just re-encounter who God is right, and the interesting thing about it is is that these moments often don't come in the waiting, the real test and the real moment of transformation happens, the moment God begins to give you the things that you've been waiting for right.
00:02:40.740 --> 00:02:49.919
I was thinking that in the moment when I was in the waiting period that I was going to be like all right, you know, I got to, I got to change, I got to shift, I got to become.
00:02:49.919 --> 00:03:19.599
But it was in the moment when God started moving me into, inching me into the new season of my life that I realized I have to get out of this transactional mindset and I have to allow God to build up this transformational mindset where it's not just about what he's adding into my life, but it's about what he is transforming me in so that I can be able to hold the things that he's doing right.
00:03:19.599 --> 00:03:24.772
So it's not about what he's adding, what I'm now able to hold in my hands.
00:03:24.772 --> 00:03:29.626
It's about what my mind, the capacity of my mind, what it can handle.
00:03:29.626 --> 00:03:36.407
It's about the capacity of my heart, how she is interacting and engaging with what God is doing.
00:03:36.407 --> 00:03:38.951
Those are the points of growth.
00:03:39.331 --> 00:03:42.687
My life didn't grow because God added the things.
00:03:42.687 --> 00:04:02.268
My life began to grow because God increased my capacity to engage him in a different way, in a new season right and just like we have to learn how we're going to engage with God when we begin to get those things immediately, I had to learn how to engage every area of my life.
00:04:02.268 --> 00:04:15.709
I had to engage in a different fashion because the thing I had been waiting on came, and when it came, I said this isn't just something that got added, this is something that has increased me.
00:04:15.709 --> 00:04:20.271
It didn't just increase my life or increase something in my life.
00:04:20.271 --> 00:04:28.584
It shifted me right, and so I had to start thinking about how am I going to use this thing to engage with the kingdom?
00:04:28.584 --> 00:04:32.456
How am I going to use this thing to engage with purpose?
00:04:32.456 --> 00:04:35.985
How am I going to use this thing to engage with ministry?
00:04:35.985 --> 00:04:42.966
How am I going to use this thing to mentor and to counsel and to give back Immediately?
00:04:43.548 --> 00:04:50.812
I want you guys to get prepared to be blessed, but I don't want you to get stuck on the blessing.
00:04:50.812 --> 00:04:56.908
I want you to remember that we are not just going to center ourselves on what God is doing.
00:04:56.908 --> 00:05:04.836
We're going to thank God for who we are becoming, because what God is doing in your life is so much bigger than the thing you've been waiting on.
00:05:04.836 --> 00:05:05.665
Let me tell you something.
00:05:05.665 --> 00:05:10.653
He would not have made you wait for it if it was not going to be good.
00:05:10.653 --> 00:05:15.259
He will not withhold any good thing from you.
00:05:15.259 --> 00:05:20.845
There's nothing that's been held back from you that wasn't going to make your life better in the moment.
00:05:20.845 --> 00:05:29.560
It was at the right time at the right place, when you were at the right position that God was able to bring that thing into your life.
00:05:29.560 --> 00:05:42.267
Because it's not just about the thing, it's not just about the transaction, it's the transformation, and the biggest thing that I had to unlearn was that God was just trying to do something in my life.
00:05:42.829 --> 00:05:48.927
God is using you as kind of the catalyst for what he's going to do in the lives of people around you.
00:05:48.927 --> 00:05:58.680
So you have to take whatever victory you get in the season, because I want to emphasize to you today that 2025 is a year of victory.
00:05:58.680 --> 00:06:02.427
It's a year of reset, it's a year of the voice of God.
00:06:02.427 --> 00:06:24.350
It's the is that the thing that he's putting in your life will not just be good for you, but that that goodness is going to spread like a seed, like a forest, like a garden.
00:06:24.350 --> 00:06:27.059
It's going to spread out from you.
00:06:27.059 --> 00:06:33.353
God is planning something into your life that he is intending to spread out from you.
00:06:33.353 --> 00:06:38.971
So, whatever victory he's giving you, go give that victory back to the people.
00:06:38.971 --> 00:06:39.612
Right?
00:06:39.612 --> 00:06:50.187
If he gave you the victory to buy a house, I want you to go and talk to three other people that you know need to be at a house and I want you to counsel them through the moment.
00:06:50.187 --> 00:06:55.858
I want your victory to be a seed inside of a fruit that's going to produce more seed.
00:06:55.858 --> 00:07:00.295
Right, if he gave you a victory and he put something back in you?
00:07:00.295 --> 00:07:02.752
Right, I want you to spread that out.
00:07:02.752 --> 00:07:03.274
Right.
00:07:03.274 --> 00:07:07.896
If you got a new car, go talk to three people that you know need a new car.
00:07:07.896 --> 00:07:08.497
Right?
00:07:09.125 --> 00:07:16.910
Unlearn the idea that this victory, that this thing that God is giving you, was just a transaction between you and him.
00:07:16.910 --> 00:07:24.978
This victory that God is planning on the inside of you and planning in your life, it's a victory for the people.
00:07:24.978 --> 00:07:25.605
Right.
00:07:25.605 --> 00:07:30.197
When God gives you your spouse, don't just sit up in the house all happy.
00:07:30.197 --> 00:07:57.690
I mean, I'm going to sit up in the house and be happy, but I want you to take that victory and I want you to find three people that you can begin to counsel through the waiting period and the blessing of when you find your God match and not just a match, when you found somebody that God destined for you to be with and not just somebody that you just landed with for you to be with and not just somebody that you just landed with right.
00:07:57.690 --> 00:08:00.298
It is time for the victory of God to spread beyond just one individual.
00:08:00.298 --> 00:08:04.490
God is giving communal blessings, but it's starting with you.
00:08:04.490 --> 00:08:08.723
Okay, it's not a transaction, it's a transformation.
00:08:09.064 --> 00:08:16.418
So, whatever God does in your life, say God, how can I use this to transform the lives of people around me?
00:08:16.418 --> 00:08:20.757
And I guarantee you we will see a difference in our communities.
00:08:20.757 --> 00:08:23.009
We will see a difference in our families.
00:08:23.009 --> 00:08:25.476
We will see a difference in our friend groups.
00:08:25.476 --> 00:08:34.376
We will see a difference in our workplaces, because victory will become a shared experience and not just an individual pursuit.
00:08:34.376 --> 00:08:41.860
We have to unlearn this idea that we're chasing after a dream that's only going to benefit us.
00:08:41.860 --> 00:08:52.769
The dream we're chasing after for those of us who are chasing after the purpose and plan of God the dream we're chasing after is something that will be communal.
00:08:52.769 --> 00:09:00.605
It's something that will impact neighborhoods and communities and cities and states and nations.
00:09:00.605 --> 00:09:08.519
You have a nationwide, an international, a community blessing that God is getting ready to hand you.
00:09:08.519 --> 00:09:12.456
Make sure you govern it wisely, all right.
00:09:12.456 --> 00:09:15.816
So I want to thank you all for tuning in to Freedom Friday.
00:09:15.816 --> 00:09:21.275
Let's keep unlearning together so that we can experience more freedom.
00:09:21.275 --> 00:09:22.378
All right, peace y'all.
00:09:28.566 --> 00:09:31.436
Thank you once again for listening to the Unlearned Podcast.
00:09:31.436 --> 00:09:35.628
We would love to hear your comments and your feedback about the episode.
00:09:35.628 --> 00:09:42.368
Feel free to follow us on facebook and instagram and to let us know what you think.
00:09:42.368 --> 00:09:48.711
We're looking forward to the next time when we are able to unlearn together to move forward towards freedom.
00:09:48.711 --> 00:09:49.614
See you then.
00:00:09.810 --> 00:00:14.095
00:00:14.095 --> 00:00:20.650
00:00:20.650 --> 00:00:21.902
00:00:21.902 --> 00:00:22.786
00:00:22.786 --> 00:00:31.221
00:00:31.221 --> 00:00:37.420
00:00:37.420 --> 00:00:41.029
00:00:41.029 --> 00:00:56.646
00:00:56.646 --> 00:00:57.530
00:00:57.530 --> 00:01:10.870
00:01:10.930 --> 00:01:11.992
00:01:11.992 --> 00:01:19.602
00:01:19.602 --> 00:01:35.463
00:01:35.463 --> 00:01:39.780
00:01:39.780 --> 00:02:40.473
00:02:40.740 --> 00:02:49.919
00:02:49.919 --> 00:03:19.599
00:03:19.599 --> 00:03:24.772
00:03:24.772 --> 00:03:29.626
00:03:29.626 --> 00:03:36.407
00:03:36.407 --> 00:03:38.951
00:03:39.331 --> 00:03:42.687
00:03:42.687 --> 00:04:02.268
00:04:02.268 --> 00:04:15.709
00:04:15.709 --> 00:04:20.271
00:04:20.271 --> 00:04:28.584
00:04:28.584 --> 00:04:32.456
00:04:32.456 --> 00:04:35.985
00:04:35.985 --> 00:04:42.966
00:04:43.548 --> 00:04:50.812
00:04:50.812 --> 00:04:56.908
00:04:56.908 --> 00:05:04.836
00:05:04.836 --> 00:05:05.665
00:05:05.665 --> 00:05:10.653
00:05:10.653 --> 00:05:15.259
00:05:15.259 --> 00:05:20.845
00:05:20.845 --> 00:05:29.560
00:05:29.560 --> 00:05:42.267
00:05:42.829 --> 00:05:48.927
00:05:48.927 --> 00:05:58.680
00:05:58.680 --> 00:06:02.427
00:06:02.427 --> 00:06:24.350
00:06:24.350 --> 00:06:27.059
00:06:27.059 --> 00:06:33.353
00:06:33.353 --> 00:06:38.971
00:06:38.971 --> 00:06:39.612
00:06:39.612 --> 00:06:50.187
00:06:50.187 --> 00:06:55.858
00:06:55.858 --> 00:07:00.295
00:07:00.295 --> 00:07:02.752
00:07:02.752 --> 00:07:03.274
00:07:03.274 --> 00:07:07.896
00:07:07.896 --> 00:07:08.497
00:07:09.125 --> 00:07:16.910
00:07:16.910 --> 00:07:24.978
00:07:24.978 --> 00:07:25.605
00:07:25.605 --> 00:07:30.197
00:07:30.197 --> 00:07:57.690
00:07:57.690 --> 00:08:00.298
00:08:00.298 --> 00:08:04.490
00:08:04.490 --> 00:08:08.723
00:08:09.064 --> 00:08:16.418
00:08:16.418 --> 00:08:20.757
00:08:20.757 --> 00:08:23.009
00:08:23.009 --> 00:08:25.476
00:08:25.476 --> 00:08:34.376
00:08:34.376 --> 00:08:41.860
00:08:41.860 --> 00:08:52.769
00:08:52.769 --> 00:09:00.605
00:09:00.605 --> 00:09:08.519
00:09:08.519 --> 00:09:12.456
00:09:12.456 --> 00:09:15.816
00:09:15.816 --> 00:09:21.275
00:09:21.275 --> 00:09:22.378
00:09:28.566 --> 00:09:31.436
00:09:31.436 --> 00:09:35.628
00:09:35.628 --> 00:09:42.368
00:09:42.368 --> 00:09:48.711
00:09:48.711 --> 00:09:49.614
