March 13, 2025
Freedom Friday: Why Your Best Life is Waiting for You to Create Space
The time has come to break free from limiting narratives that keep us trapped in cycles of stagnation and disappointment. We must dig deep to identify and extract the thoughts that make us believe nothing will ever change in our lives.
• Stop building mental frameworks that support your old life
• Understand that the way you speak about your desires shapes your reality
• Actively create space for the blessings you're expecting to arrive
• Set tangible representations of your faith (like an extra dinner plate or a budget)
• Celebrate others receiving what you're still waiting for
• Replace deficit thinking with expectancy and hope
• Build your life as if your breakthrough is already here
• Recognize that 2025 will be a year of manifestation and abundance
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Chapters
00:09 - Welcome to Freedom Friday
01:06 - Escaping Old Life Patterns
03:35 - Building Frameworks for Blessings
06:06 - Replacing Deficit Mindsets
08:17 - Call to Unlearn Together
Transcript
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what's up everybody and welcome to the unlearned podcast.
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This is freedom friday, where we come together to talk about something that we have unlearned recently.
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I'm your girl, jaquita.
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It's good to be in the number one more more time.
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I'm so happy to be here with you guys.
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Listen, a lot has been happening and I am so glad that I get to discuss it with each one of you.
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Okay, friends, listen.
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So I was thinking today I've been thinking for a while, actually that here in this big year okay, of 2025, all right, there is just such a difference between the life we had before and the life we're about to enter into, and I think the mistake that a lot of us can get entrapped in is the idea that our life will always be the same.
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It is a narrative, it is a thought that will create a pattern, right, that we will always continue to recreate the life that we actually don't want, the life that we're actually asking God to deliver us from, the life that we're actually actively trying to escape from or to build with or to see something different.
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But there is this narrative lying.
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Understanding this narrative thought, right, this thing that's underneath our dirt.
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Right, this thing that is right underneath the surface that is telling you nothing's ever going to change, right, your life will continue to be exactly as it has always been.
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And what I want us to do in this year of, in the year of our Lord, 2025, is I want you to dig down into the depths of yourself, right?
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I want you to dig down into the depths of your being, into the depths of your understanding, into the depths of your perception of life.
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I want you to dig down, I want you to find that thought where it's been residing, right?
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It's something that may have come from your past.
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It's something that may have come from your experiences growing up.
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It's something that may have come right, Because you might have been in your 20s and you were struggling right.
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Then you got to your 30s.
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You're like I thought 30s is supposed to be different.
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I'm still struggling, wherever it is, wherever it's residing in the inside of your heart, somewhere in your mind.
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I want you to take that thought and I want you to get some tweezers you know them good tweezers and I want you to pluck it right out, because it is causing you to rebuild and restructure right and reformulate the exact life that you say you don't want.
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And what I came here on this Freedom Friday to tell you today is trouble don't last always.
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You are about to see a shift in your life like you've never seen before.
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There is a brand new day coming, and I don't want you to be presented with your best life and slap the hand of God because you're not ready to receive it.
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It is time for all of us to get our mindset right, to get our feet planted in hope and in faith and in trust.
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It is time, right now, for us to believe again, for us to hope again, for us to see.
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I can see the light.
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I can see the light of day.
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I want you to see it, I want you to believe it.
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I want you to hope for it and I want you to start building as if that thing is already here.
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Too many times, we wait for our blessings to come knock us over the head.
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We wait for the things that we've been asking God for the things that we've been praying God for.
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We wait for them to come to us.
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But what I'm telling you is build it and it'll come right.
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Whatever you're praying for, right.
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Whatever you're asking God for, I want you to start building a life that looks like that thing is already here.
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Right, if you waiting on a spouse and you live by yourself, that's what I want you to do.
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I want you to set a plate out for them on the table.
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Okay, say, somebody going to be there, somebody coming to sit in that spot, because I'm not going to keep eating these good dinners by myself.
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That I done spent all my single years learning how to cook.
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Okay, Somebody's coming, something's coming.
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If you're waiting on more money, I want you to make a budget.
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I want you to make a budget.
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I want you to make a budget for the thing that you're asking God for, for the amount that you're hoping for.
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I want you to create room.
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I want you to make room on the inside of yourself.
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I want you to make room in your thoughts.
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I want you to make room in what you're meditating on.
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I want you to make room, make room, make room because the thing is coming, and I want you to stop building frameworks that support your old life.
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Stop building mental frameworks.
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Mental framework may look like no one is ever going to love me.
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That's a mental framework that is building a reality up in your life.
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All right, a mental framework is I never have enough money.
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That's a mental framework that is building up a reality in your life.
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We all be here, girl, you know I'm broke.
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A mental framework that is building up a reality in your life.
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I want you to change how you speak about it.
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I want you to change how you engage around the topic.
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Right.
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When someone, if you waiting on God to do something in your life and somebody else brings it up, I want you to start celebrating right.
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If somebody else gets it before you, I want you to sow good seed.
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I want you to celebrate.
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I want you to help them with it.
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Right.
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If you know you're waiting on a spouse and your best friend get it before you.
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I want you to say girl, what do you need?
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I'm here for you, I got you.
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I'm excited about this thing.
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I'm praying you through.
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I want you to sow good seed, because nothing has jarred your expectation that this thing is actually going to happen in your life.
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And what I am here to tell you is is that the thing that you've been waiting on, the change that you've been waiting on.
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This is the year, this is the season, this is the time.
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The things are coming, the people are coming, the provision is coming right.
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The goodness of the Lord, we will see it in the land of the living.
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It's coming.
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It's coming.
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It's coming.
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Build the frameworks, build the mindsets, build the heart, build the attitude right.
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Build your expectations back up right, so that we can begin to build a framework for what it is that we're actually hoping to see, and not continue to build a framework that supports the cycles that have kept us from our land of abundance.
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I am excited about what God is about to do in your life, friend, and I want you to tell me all about it, right, because we are about to start building some things.
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Tell me all about it, right, because we are about to start building some things, and I'm telling you the things that you are building a place for something's about to come and sit in that spot, right.
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So build up your expectations, build up your hope, build up your faith, because I cannot wait to see everything that God does for us in 2025.
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It's time to unlearn that deficit mindset and it's time to get ready.
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Get ready, get ready, because it's on the way.
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Okay, y'all, thank you so much for allowing me to hang out with y'all for Freedom Friday.
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Right, this has been your girl, jaquita, and I want us to continue to keep unlearning together so that we can experience more freedom.
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Peace, y'all.
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Thank you once again for listening to the Unlearned Podcast.
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We would love to hear your comments and your feedback about the episode.
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We're looking forward to the next time when we are able to unlearn together to move forward towards freedom.
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See you then.
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